It always seems that a good part of every weekend is spent working on some home improvement project. Either we’re replacing the leaky kitchen sink, fixing the upstairs toilet that keeps running, or the usual sort of stuff like cleaning the gutters and raking the yard. Sometimes we guys get lucky and can work on something we actually want to work on, like a mancave or setting up a home office the exact way we want. Another project that is worth the time and effort, that is also fun, is making something for the kids.
1. The Tween Cave
As much as we try and deny it, our kids are growing up. The happy little twerp that was glued to your leg is now a moody teen who wants to be left alone in his room. Why not make him a dream room he will love? Ideally, the best place is a basement or an attic. It gives the budding adult a greater sense of privacy, while allowing you to still keep an eye on him.
The key here is to let them have a major say in how the room looks. If they want everything painted black and dark purple, like their favorite band (or whatever sort of music they like) then let them paint the room that color. It will show them that you value their thoughts and ideas. Did I mention that they also have to help? Working on their own room like that will give them a greater appreciation for what they built.
Remember, it’s during these years that a teen will be tempted to do things like drinking or drugs. If they have a cool place where they feel in control, that along with your guidance, make all the difference in what choices they make.
2. A Tree House or Fort
The treehouse has been a staple for boys and girls of all ages for a long time. This is one of those things that has gotten better over the years, because there are more options than ever. If a yard doesn’t have big enough trees to build a treehouse, you can build a fort. Pirate ships and rockets are also an option.
There are tons of YouTube videos that can give dads a step by step guide to build whatever they want. If you aren’t gifted in the carpentry arts, there are kits you can buy. These are relatively easy to assemble, but still give the dad an excuse to bust out the tools and let the kids watch while he builds something. Failing that, there are even professional treehouse and fort builders who will do all the work, but where’s the fun in that?
3. The Classic Playroom
The best thing about a regular playroom is that it can be used all year long, regardless of the weather. There is also a lot of flexibility in what can be done. No matter what the kids are into, building the perfect playroom is a cinch. It can be a rough and tumble superhero lair, or the ballroom in a castle.
Decorating the playroom is easier than most people expect. The main thing is to keep it fun and fitting with the chosen theme. Having custom chairs with the most creative upholstery fabric is a great way to bring a playroom together, and spark a child’s imagination. To them, you aren’t building a playroom. You’re building them a magical place all their own.
The list of things a dad can do is nearly endless. The project can be indoor or outdoor, and depending on the age of your kids, the scope and tone can go from princess in pink to rock stars in black leather. If there is enough of an age difference, you might have to do more than one project. Like that’s a bad thing. Use these few ideas to get you started. Take them, run with them, and make them your own.
Sometimes even the most agile Heads-Up Dads discover they can’t have nice things stored out in their garage anymore because with so many kids playing on the property, they can’t keep their storage areas locked and safe from thieves.
Its a hard decision to tell kids they can’t play with the neighbors on the home property anymore, but a parents’ eyes can’t be everywhere at once. In more urban communities with high pedestrian traffic on the sidewalk,an unattended garage space can get pilfered in less time than it takes to answer a ringing phone.
When the neighbourhood kids run amuck about the property they frequently leave doors and windows wide open, and adolescent teens are especially prone to leaving the garage door open at night.
Prowlers Pounce on Open Garage Doors
Here in Toronto almost half the burglaries that police investigate occur in residential garages, and these numbers are rising. McKee Horrigan garage door installers report a 30% increase in ‘armoured doors’ sold over the last two years. The steel plated garage door is ‘custom build’ with extra metal on the front. Its almost impossible to cut through, and the frame can be additionally reinforced to prevent buckling if rammed by car or truck. Suburban thieves often work in pairs, prowling side streets looking for targets of opportunity. Unsecured or open garage doors rank high on their list. More sophisticated burglars might travel with binoculars in their car to spy valuables inside open garages from a safe distance. They like expensive tools and toys, especially bicycles they can ride away to a nearby rendezvous point.
Any Toronto residents reading this might remember Igor Kenk the local bike shop owner who both stole bicycles and bought hundreds of stolen bikes. The photo below is the grand cache seized by police, many of which were later donated to inner city youth. Not all of these bicycles were stolen while locked to parking stanchions; the most expensive bikes with composite materials in lightweight designer frames were often lifted from inside locked garages where the owner felt safe storing them between rides. .
High tech alarms systems with IP cameras video surveillance are fine, but all too often security protocol starts and ends with the youngest members of the family.
Brian Mcleish the CEO of Guru Security in Toronto has a lot to say on the subject of home security and garage security as an extension of family discipline. He identifies a role for Heads-Up Dads as Security Boss.
Five Ideas To Help Keep The Family Garage More Secure
Install a perimeter alarm system with magnetic contacts on garage side doors and windows that can be ‘armed’ at night at a panel in the house; this display should show open doors and windows at a glance. Most home alarm systems require all windows and doors to be shut and locked before the system will arm – be sure the array includes the garage door.
Install motion sensors tied to flood lights on the outside corners of the garage and where they would be most effective on the property.
Consider a possible security role for the family pet.
Better utilize remote locking systems – most modern home security systems now feature remote locking devices which can give parents added control from inside the dwelling and when they are away from home. Parents can unlock the door for their teen when they arrive home from school. Also, if the child forgets to lock the door, parents can easily secure it, and check to see that its secure from inside their car or office.
Security Protocol – The head of the household should create an easy to follow, easy to remember security protocol for the whole family.. Put a list of to-dos on the fridge and front door of the house. Designate the garage a ‘high security’ zone.
If the garage door doesn’t include an automatic close function, The Autocloser addresses the need to keep your garage door closed by automatically shutting your garage door if you inadvertently leave it open. The device attaches to most residential garage door openers and will automatically close the door after the user specified closing time has elapsed. The times can be set to 2, 5, 10, 15 or 20 minutes. Autocloser comes equipped with a disable button that will allow the door to remain open indefinitely.when required.
Keep Garage Flat Roof Safe From Sneaks With Sawsalls
Brian Mcleish posted a piece on Guru Security blog about keeping flat roofs safe where he showed how easy it is to cut through a modern flat roof with the right equipment. He posted a graphic courtesy of ToughRoof flat roof repair that shows how modern flat roofs are composed of layers of tar, plastic foam insulation and wood like chocolate layer cake, which is not so hard to slice through with a drill and Sawsall.(heavy duty jigsaw). The takeaway is simply ‘don’t forget the flat roof’ and put motion detectors and flood lights up there too if roof access is even remotely possible from the street.
The hardest part about keeping the family garage safe may be the delicate task of informing children that burglaries happen all the time and theft is more likely when bicycles, tools, and expensive toys are left lying about or within easy each inside an unattended open garage.
If you’re anything like me, I’m on some level always feeling that I’m not spending quality time with my kids like I want to. But at the same time, I’m also somewhat incapacitated. Between work, the stuff on the calendar, and meeting the kids’ basic needs, I often collapse at the end of the day in one exhausted heap.
The nature of gardening and landscaping is that it is an ongoing process, not a one-time thing. You’re planting new life. It needs water, sunlight, and care. So at the outset, you’re committed. You’re going to get out there with the kids on a regular basis.
If you’re like me and can only handle so much (or not any) playing dollhouse or Star Wars light-saber fights or painful “Fine” responses as you try to engage your teen, this is a game-changer. I’m going to lay out 3 important lessons that getting outside as a family instills in your kids.
Unless you were born with a green thumb, working with plants is going to take patience. You’ll need to learn how to plant and care for plant life.
Getting a garden started takes persistence and patience. It’s not done in an hour. You have to prepare the soil, plant the produce and herbs you are going to grow, and prune and water what you’ve planted.
It can be tedious at times. In a world in which research papers are as easy as a google search and in which 200+ tv shows and movies are at my kids’ fingertips on Netflix at any given moment, working outdoors is a valuable character-builder.
Not everything worth having, can be acquired quickly. Often those things of greatest value take time and patience. It’s not always as easy as Tweeting an acquaintance for a job recommendation. Sometimes it is, but I want my children to be prepared for the times when it’s not. For those times when waiting is required in order to see results.
THE IMPORTANCE OF FAMILY
Your children know what is most important to you, by how you spend your time. Spending quality time with them will show them that they are important to you.
Working together with your spouse and kids will deepen the bond you all have. It will draw you closer. And this close bond will create trust.
When my girls are in the face of intense peer pressure, this foundation of trust will assure them I will always be there for them. That no matter what, I have been there and will be there for them.
Having a supportive and dependable family structure is vital for kids. These traits are indicators for success down the road. This falls on your shoulders.
My kids are skilled at finding the path of least resistance. Left to themselves, they would play video games all day, never bathe or change their clothes, and never clean up after themselves. An onlooker may wonder if the chores we subject our kids to our actually physically painful to them, judging from the sighs and grunts that leave their mouths.
All that to say, diligence and hard work do not come naturally. In part, it is up to us as parents to help foster these quality traits in them. They may hate us for it at the time, but in the long-run, they will thank us.
The most effective way to teach your kids to have a good work ethic, is not just to force them to work hard, but to get in there and work with them. Set an example. Get your hands dirty. Show them how it’s done.
Whether you are planting a garden in the spring or taking a Saturday morning to plant a tree to shade your front porch, these are projects that will guarantee family time and teaching opportunities in days to come.
Make the most of your time. Take advantage of those opportunities. You will blink, and these years will be passed. Slow down and determine what you want to instill in your kids now.
How about you? What benefits have you found from working outdoors with your family?
Fresh back from the 2016 Outdoor Adventure Show in Toronto, I can report the attraction was designed with young families in mind and it really is a great place for Heads-Up Dads to spend Saturday with the kids. It’s cost effective too. Adults pay $14, and children age eleven and under get in free.
There’s no sandbox, bumper cars or bouncy gyms here, and no food courts either, but the whole show is something of a play zone with every vendor offering up something cool for young people. The three-day exhibition has a wide array of adventure options for all age groups right there on the trade show floor. Many booths have interactive games for 8-12 year olds, mostly puzzle challenges; smart dealers know they need to tie up young family members so they can talk shop with parents.
Here are some of the more interesting ‘youth engagement’ strategies I witnessed,
The Adventure Convention Organizers Included Activities for Young People
The show’s organizers had young families in mind when they created the Outdoor Adventurers Passport wherein kids can collect stamps (paw prints) from vendors for prizes at the end of the journey. A completed passport could be turned in for both short term rewards and a chance of winning a much bigger prize later. The true benefit is for vendors of course as this tactic effortlessly draws in families with young children; this passport is an ice breaker with an easy greeting ritual and friendly exchange that makes it real easy to talk afterwards.
Everywhere I looked there were young people getting their adventure on; they were climbing rock walls, and in one corner of the show kids were zip lining between platforms overhead. In this respect young people acquired a different perspective on the event than their parents.
A Spinning Wheel Mesmerizes Kids and Dispenses Coupons to Parents
There were a couple Crown & Anchor wheels which had been repurposed into spin-the-wheel games for coupons. The one on the right was operated by Tourism Toronto and dispensed SUP vouchers, gift certificates, coloring books and there was almost always a crowd of youngsters in front of this rig.
But the real pedestrian crush occurred in the main aisle just inside the front door where it bottle-necked around the Flight Center and a hot deals travel agency. If you were shopping for discount airfare for your next family trip then this was probably a good place to be. Regarding the crowd I think what happened was the new people coming in the door came up against the folks who’d been around once already and everyone jammed up on Main St there in front of Xcitelife.
Xcitelife is a Marketplace for Unique Experiences for the Whole Family
People could not get down the center aisle without encountering a list of fun things to do at Xcitelife; the booth attendants wore black shirts with red X’s. This is the company motif and the X stands for experience and not extreme. Their charismatic greeters stood near their company flags drumming up excitement for their experience marketplace and they signed up many influential new users.
Xcitelife asked families to make a Bucket List; their software helps decision makers source travel solutions in the coming months and years. Check out Earth Girl and another great profile from the show is Martin, The new members wrote their aspirations on red paper X’s which they pinned to a dream board. The board soon displayed the collective vacation fantasies of the entire show and it was from this arena that a prize winner was eventually selected.
“Everyone wants to live an Xciting life, but too often folks get stuck in the ordinary” says Paul Peic. “At Xcitelife we’ve made it our mission to transform lives through experiences.”
There was no food court, but there was protein available at the show.
Kids love cured meat! D & D Meats were among the only food vendors at the show. There were granola bars and trail mixes in the survival quadrant, but this booth was the only meat option. This family-owned cured meat shop from Alliston Ontario had a wide corner all to themselves, and were doing a brisk business selling beef jerky, pepperoni, sausages and kielbasa.
All day long people streamed through the crowded event eddying about in open areas of the trade show floor and milling around the central water pool. This aquatic attraction was also called the Demo Pool and frequently had young performers showing off their skills in the latest model kayaks.
The crowd also collected in front of three live theatres where experts shared stories and advice. This author came upon the Adventures in Paddling stage just as the float plane touched down on Rabbitkettle Lake on the Nahanni River and a flat water paddler unpacked stand-up paddle boards for the whole family.
Rapid Media Best Kayak Reviews 2016 Paddling Buyer’s Guide, also SUPs, Canoe Reviews.
Adventures in Paddling theatre was surrounded by the latest model SUPs or Stand Up Paddle Boards, canoes and kayaks for sale, and on the far side of the opening stood the Rapid Media booth with giant posters displaying their magazine titles.
Rapid Media had some all-ages engagement strategies at play, and in the age of shareable moments the magazine title cardboard cutouts were really busy, especially the ‘Wild Women’ Adventure Kayak magazine cutout seen at right.
Rapid Media has done well in the paddling space with four popular magazines, Adventure Kayak, Canoeroots, Kayak Angler, and Rapid the whitewater magazine. These publications are gorgeous print mags filled with real life travel stories, photos, videos and professional gear reviews from expert paddlers all over the world. At the show the editorial staff were selling half price annual subscriptions.
Each of the three live theatres was sponsored by one magazine or another, and besides the paddling magazine one was dedicated to scuba diving and another to hiking; and the land trekking theatre was sponsored by Outpost Magazine, which is all about getting geared up and making long distance journeys across vast scenic landscapes.
History Exhibits Tell Stories at the Outdoor Adventure Show
First Nations storytellers enthralled kids by relating the Voyage of the Iroquois. The area attendants were dressed in native Canadian regalia, and the walls of their particular open attraction were filled with images taken by passengers inside the giant twelve person canoes. These pictures are from summer trips that spend two or three weeks paddling the historic trade routes of the Voyageurs!
Kids could indeed soak up a lot of history from the installations at the show, and at one exhibit in particular there was displayed stone axe heads, arrowheads and spear points from the Stone Age. At noon in the Survival Theatre on Saturday there was an expert from Parks Canada who was able to show crowds how the First Canadians could hunt and kill great beast with primitive weapons. One guy seen below actually assembled arrows and spears in front of a live audience.
Kids of all ages love the Toronto Adventure Show and the best part are experts like this guy who share first hand knowledge. This is a family show that’s fit for outdoor adventurers of all ages – more information about the 2016 Outdoor Adventure Show on Toronto Guardian.
A familypreneur is an entrepreneur who runs a business with his family. This means their business decisions are made while considering their family’s needs, and by considering how their enterprise affects their loved ones. A familypreneurship is born from a deep consideration of the opportunity available, and what limitations or expansion of the family dynamic that such a mercantile operation might impose on their lives. One thing is certain, familypreneurs always put their families first. This from Top Five Business Models for Entrepreneur Families which was written up in the Toronto Entrepreneur’s Blog in October 2014.
While there are many paths leading to the decision to own a business, and to striking out on one’s own to be an entrepreneur, the path to familyprenuership is always intriguingly different. It usually comes as a solution to a massive life problem, for example, chronic unemployment, a painful divorce, or forced migration to another country etc. But sometimes the business decision is born out of the realization that their lives are not fulfilling, and their careers are not be leading them to where they want to go in life.
Here are the top five familypreneur franchise business models, measured in terms profitability, scalability and quality of life.
Open a Family Owned Retail Store
Buying a retail stores with the intention of providing meaningful employment for everyone in the family is the number one choice of new Canadians who become defacto familypreneurs to better adjust to this society. In many cases they have just survived a Grape-of-Wrath style life altering journey, and so now the demands of managing a general store in Canada seems easy by comparison.
An increasingly popular choice in franchises are dollar stores, and Canadian dollar stores in particular are popping up more and more which is a sure sign that people are doing well in the model. Also becoming more and more prominent are Bulk Barns, Party Max, and 7-11 stores. These retail chains all advertise on the internet to find applicants, and in their brochures they stress quality of life and employment for the whole family. The 7/11 store owner program in particular makes it very easy to manage this complicated retail venue by providing daily, weekly and monthly checklists to follow and phone numbers to call for further guidance.
Become a Compact Refreshment Centre Operator
You’ve seen vending machines that are absolute life savers for hungry people waiting in hospitals, automotive repair centers, airports and shopping malls, have you ever wondered what it might be like to own such a machine? or ten? or two hundred? Anywhere there’s a safe, sizable, reputable waiting room you’re sure to find a vending machine filled with tasty snacks. Depending on the branding and the products inside, stocking that machine could be a family business.
Families that stock their own compact refreshment centers and who work together every day, enjoy great lives together with lots of personal freedom. They only have to work a few hours a day, and because they work with each other they feel more connected to their families than any of their neighbors do, because of their shared responsibility and social interaction within their circle, sharing their circle’s perspective with the community at large
The Compact Refreshment Centre program offers a sensible way to start and grow a business that yourself and your family can enjoy for future decades. Becoming a successful Compact Refreshment Centre Operator will change your life and bring a mental, physical and financial security to decisions – it fuels bigger and even more lucrative daydreams
There are lots of jobs for family members of all ages in a CRC venture, including accounting, buying food (dry goods to stick the machine), the labour of stocking machines, collecting the coins, and sorting the coins and then rolling them up for the bank are all jobs for eager teenagers. The term “Familypreneuring” has been recently popularized by John and Michelle Humphrey of Familyprenuering.com. Based out of San Diego, CA. the couple have created a webinar and ebook on the subject.
Open a Frozen Yogurt Franchise!
Frozen Yogurt is a dessert made with yogurt and sometimes other dairy products. It’s more tart than ice cream, and is lower in fat content. For whatever reason, North America’s hunger for frozen yogurt has become insatiable, and stores that specialize in serving this food stuff have become very popular in the 21st century shopping mall-scape.
Buying such a franchise, although it does have some seasonal limitations depending on the location, can be a very profitable venture over the long term, simply because the ingredients are so cheap to procure and customer satisfaction is so high. The staff requires very little training, and the stores tend to become social hang-outs for teens with lots of money to spend on other things. And because frozen yogurt products taste delicious. they can become synonymous with ‘good times’ forming very positive brand experiences. The restaurants there’s always a job for everyone in the family; even the youngest children can distribute flyers, prep vegetables and wash kitchen equipment.
Buy a Food Delivery Franchise
In the shadow of bio engineered food, plague and pestilence, the Canadian organic food industry has grown at a rate of 300% since 2006, making it one of the fastest growing segments of the economy. As more people become aware of the dangers of conventional farming practices, the demand for access to clean, safe, chemical free food has absolutely exploded.
A rapidly expanding service sector in the internet age is the grocery delivery business. Lots of consumers find it ultra convenient to be able to go online and customize a grocery order for immediate delivery rather than take two or three hours to go there themselves.
Organic’s Live is an organic food delivery business that was founded by a group of concerned dads who believe communities can eat good food that has been produced with environmental, health and economic stewardship at the fore. They market food that has been grown free of chemicals and in harmony with its surroundings. There are several food delivery food franchises businesses to choose from, but the demand for organic food is higher because obtaining certified organic commodities is usually only possible at organic markets or at traveling farmers’ markets which are hard for working parents to find and effectively access.
Start a Niche Service Business
If you walk through any residential neighborhood in any city in Canada during business hours, you will spot many different service businesses at work in other people’s homes. There are various trucks painted different colours with ladders, tools and machines doing eavestrough cleaning, driveway sealing, snow removal, grass cutting etc and these are some of the less imaginative examples. Many different types of cleaning businesses are available as franchises now, and people specialize in cleaning ventilation ducts, carpets, drains, vegetation, pools … An office cleaning business may not be exactly glamorous, but it can be very profitable.
This quote is from a testimonials on the Molly Maid website’s franchise page, “As my children were growing older, I felt it was time to return to the work force. I wasn’t interested in working for someone else, so I started looking at the possibilities of buying a Franchise. I wasn’t interested in working evenings and weekends, and wanted something I could operate out of my house.”
This above quote reads like a textbook example of a familypreneur at the starting point, making a decision to put the people they love foremost in their lives while they work for success.
These are the Top Five Franchises for Familypreneurs and although they are all very different, they are all rather similar in one respect: the founders don’t necessarily want to get rich, but rather they just want to be their own bosses, and savor the thrill of making it, or breaking it in the real world alongside their families, working in business as a team.
There are probably a hundred or more good reasons to plant a fruit tree with your family, here are five. Familial aspects aside, all of this falls into a greater green world order and general coming-of-age by an environmentally apologetic humanity. The greenest people of earth are the children; they’re part of a hyper carbon conscious future that embraces Garden City Transformations. Kids know that fruit trees are one of six Elements Needed to Make a Garden City in Toronto and elsewhere, in every metropolitan center, in every country, in every continent all over the world.
Planting fruit trees in a big city is sometimes restricted by municipal bylaws. The city doesn’t plant apples, pears or cherries by choice, and property developers are restricted from planting them by city ordinances for a whole lot of reasons; maintenance and liability are the predominant arguments against city planners planting fruit bearing species along streets and sidewalks. Homeowners can plant anything they want in their backyards however, and can obtain fruit trees in nurseries here in Canada, and in Ontario and those include Henry Fields Nurseries and Sheridan Nurseries, neither of which specialize in any particular fruit tree varietals (like most nurseries in Europe do) nor will they deliver to your residential property.
One of the secrets of planting trees in the city is to also buy a big bag of soil and make a burm around the seedling. This helps the small tree survive the heat of summer and the cold of winter. Professional tree planters dig a deep hole and then fill it with black garden earth from vegetable composting programs and then put the original soil back on top. In Toronto you can buy a big bag of soil from Weedaway for about $120, and have it delivered right to your home.
Five Reasons to Plant a Fruit Tree with a Young Family
1. The fruit tree will grow as your family grows and the memory of planting the tree becomes a powerful growth myth that will be part of each child’s psyche – the memory of planting the tree becomes synonymous with making an investment and nurturing growth and performing small physical improvements over time. The tree can be sourced locally or bought from an online vendor that will deliver in Europe and the USA, but no such businesses exist in Canada.
2. The fruit tree is handy biological reference to study and explain, and it can take on the characteristics of a pet with almost no maintenance or additional expense of keeping an animal – so its the perfect family member. The tree’s first blossoms make it easier to talk about nature’s many and various reproductive systems. Registering the tree, means the kids can volunteer later on at charities that visit private homes and tour city parks picking fruit for charity driven gourmet baking initiatives and wildscaping programs. Los Angeles has a fruit picking outreach program for kids called Fallen Fruit, and Portland Oregon has an apple tree harvesting program for their inner city youth that is famous because it at has been featured in motion pictures.
3. The fruit tree is part of the fabric of nature and has lovely blossoms in the spring that attract buzzing pollinators and floral photographers. A fruit tree in the springtime is a lovely photo backdrop and the fertility metaphor is a subtle and strong reminder of the promise of prosperity.
4. A fruit tree attracts cool wildlife and colourful birds. A robust apple tree will bring deer out of the woods, and cherry trees attract squirrels and other storyfull rouges. This is good for kids as animals sell adventure- good for adults as sophisticated songbirds serenade our souls.
5. You can make fruit juice with family members many years later, maybe your grandchildren. Juicing is great way to get vitamin C into a child’s body, and most kids LOVE IT. Fresh juice is amazingly more healthy than canned juice and way more fun- it can be frozen into ice cubes and kept as treats for rainy days and they won’t even know it’s good for them. But more importantly its the activity as a unique and productive exercise that they remember all their lives.